There are three kinds of men. The one that learn by reading. The few who learn by observation. The rest of them have to pee on the electric fence for themselves.
by Will Rogers
I love research and pride myself on reading and trying to educate myself thru books. I have lived here in SE Asia now for almost ten years and to be honest, I had to pee on the electric fence! It was not that I did not read and do research about the culture in SE Asia and it is not like there is not 1000 of books, articles, web sites, forums about SE Asia woman because there are and I read many of them. I write this because it is the best advice I can give when I have friends asking about moving here and the chance of them finding a woman to be with or marry. So read all the books and for most of us
Just pee on the electric fence and make the most of it!